This weekend I learned that while I’m kind of a pessimist irl, I’m a bit of an idealist when it comes to relationships. 

Probably because I’ve never been in a “real” one. Like, too many people say titles ain’t shit, but it would be nice to experience having one. Kind of like Valentine’s Day. I know it’s just a marketing scam, but I would like to be given a stuffed bear and some roses on that day, too. >_>

I’m not about to sell my soul + my dignity for a title, but it would be nice to be able to introduce someone special to me as “partner” or “girlfriend/boifriend” instead of “person I’m seeing”. It sounds so impersonal and ultimately, it’s not what I want.

I’m trying to figure out what to do from here.

ohdearolive a réagi à votre billet “ohdearolive a réagi à votre billet “Does anyone actually like dating?…”

like ya know that ‘where we at with this?’ process? or the official ‘we’re together!’ ?

I’m just venting, tbh. I’m having to reevaluate how to approach…whatever it is I have with this person, and I’m not too happy about it. 

Well, I don’t have to. My brain is just telling me to. 

ohdearolive a réagi à votre billet “Does anyone actually like dating? Jw.”

like the process that comes before you’re with a SO?

I guess? I don’t really know.

Does anyone actually like dating? Jw.

srkdall:

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I’m grown but I’m not grown grown

I baby the hell out of my dark jeans, especially my black ones, and now they’re all going to be faded because my roommate/landlord still hasn’t done anything about the fact that, for some reason, everything is washed in boiling hot water even when you want cold.

I asked her to do something about this, literally, months ago. I hate hand-washing, but I guess I have no other choice.

Ugh. 

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Brown girl, brown girl, turn your shit down. 
You know America don’t wanna hear your sound.

prostheticknowledge:

Hoodie

Marble sculpture by Chris Mitton is an anonymous bust of the contemporary garment:

'Referencing the iconography of classical carved marble busts, Hoodie confronts the faceless stereotyping and politics of fear employed by sections of government and media, rather than their addressing issues behind the social exclusion and desire for self-exemption from society’.

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Oscar de la Renta, famous Dominican-born designer has died at age 82. The news of his passing come after de la Renta had appointed Peter Copping as the Creative Director of the brand just a week ago. De la Renta had been battling cancer for a while, however, the official cause of death has not been released. (x)

“Now is the most exciting time in fashion. Women are controlling their destiny now, the consumer is more knowledgeable, and I have to be better every single day.” 

loki-has-a-tardis:

This is honestly the best poster I have found in a while supporting breast cancer awareness. I am honestly so sick of seeing, “set the tatas free” and “save the boobies”. There is no reason in hell a life threatening, life ruining disease should be sexualized. “Don’t wear a bra day,” go fuck yourselves. You’re not saving a pair of tits, you’re saving the entire package: mind, body, and soul included. Women are not just a pair of breasts.

loki-has-a-tardis:

This is honestly the best poster I have found in a while supporting breast cancer awareness. I am honestly so sick of seeing, “set the tatas free” and “save the boobies”. There is no reason in hell a life threatening, life ruining disease should be sexualized. “Don’t wear a bra day,” go fuck yourselves. You’re not saving a pair of tits, you’re saving the entire package: mind, body, and soul included. Women are not just a pair of breasts.

Finally pinpointed the reason I’ve felt down all day:

Disappointment. 

mulders:

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