This weekend I learned that while I’m kind of a pessimist irl, I’m a bit of an idealist when it comes to relationships.
Probably because I’ve never been in a “real” one. Like, too many people say titles ain’t shit, but it would be nice to experience having one. Kind of like Valentine’s Day. I know it’s just a marketing scam, but I would like to be given a stuffed bear and some roses on that day, too. >_>
I’m not about to sell my soul + my dignity for a title, but it would be nice to be able to introduce someone special to me as “partner” or “girlfriend/boifriend” instead of “person I’m seeing”. It sounds so impersonal and ultimately, it’s not what I want.
I’m trying to figure out what to do from here.
ohdearolive a réagi à votre billet “ohdearolive a réagi à votre billet “Does anyone actually like dating?…”
like ya know that ‘where we at with this?’ process? or the official ‘we’re together!’ ?
I’m just venting, tbh. I’m having to reevaluate how to approach…whatever it is I have with this person, and I’m not too happy about it.
Well, I don’t have to. My brain is just telling me to.
like the process that comes before you’re with a SO?
I guess? I don’t really know.
Does anyone actually like dating? Jw.
I baby the hell out of my dark jeans, especially my black ones, and now they’re all going to be faded because my roommate/landlord still hasn’t done anything about the fact that, for some reason, everything is washed in boiling hot water even when you want cold.
I asked her to do something about this, literally, months ago. I hate hand-washing, but I guess I have no other choice.
Finally pinpointed the reason I’ve felt down all day:
Men Stop Threatening To Kill Your Daughters Boyfriends To Prove Your Masculinity and Show That Your Daughter Is Your Property 2k14